Short-term boyfriends and men with issues

Why would you want to be with a guy that sees you “short-term”? That’s literally tells you that he does not plan see you in the picture going forward…it is an equivalent to saying that it is just a series of one night stand, why settle?

A man who is willing to let go a real good thing is an idiot. So don’t date idiots!

An intelligent man who already knows what he wants, will get want he wants and there is no point in convincing him otherwise.

Women are lying to themselves if they think that their guy “loves” them but is too busy to spend time with them.

Most men will do almost anything to be with the girl of their dreams. If you are on the top of his list, he will always have time for you and the time slots looks quite nice.

Here’s the test:

If he takes you on a date and it will primarily be:

a.) On a Friday or Saturday
- good! You are on the top of his list. If he deviates from these days, be wary, jump ship before he converts you over to a Wednesday girl or a lunch time girl or a booty call girl!

b.) Always on a weeknight
- not good enough for a Friday girl, but at least you get to spend some time with this hunk, eh? Don’t settle girls!!! Basically, you’re not good enough for the weekends but he maintains you just in case his weekend girls dumps him. You’re low maintenance and good to keep around. I know, I know, I am brutal….

c.) Only texts you late at night
- you are a booty call!!! You are just a convenient for him. Don’t kid yourself kido, move on….

Women need to decide what role we want to play in our partner’s life. Do we want to play an insignificant part where we fill in the little caps of time that “our” man has to offer? A Wednesday night once a month, a lunch the next month, a night cap with you leaving a dawn so you don’t “bother” him in the morning? You can just be part of his night life fantasy and he can come and go as he wishes. He will have many girlfriends while you fill in the gaps where his relationships have failed. What role do you play in this relationship?